
Dr. Evelyne Raposo Psy.D.
TOOL # 5 - Rx 15 FORMULA
FIFTEEN USEFUL QUESTIONS REGARDING MOST RELATIONSHIPS (Rx)!
Do you want to clarify and understand “WHY” you are in a certain relationship (Rx) or
“WHY” you keep attracting certain types of people?
Please LISTEN to your gut instinct, your immediate first and second thoughts,
and the facts of your past and current Rx reality as you ask yourself these questions!
1. How & what does this relationship (Rx) contribute to my life?
2. What is my part in it? -- how do I play into it?
3. How does this person/Rx serve me?
4. What is the need that is being fulfilled?
5. How do I serve them – directly or indirectly?
6. What or whom does this type of Rx remind me of?
7. What is being asked of me to do or to be in this Rx?
8. What is the message or lesson to be learned from here?
9. How much time and energy have I spent on this issue?
10. Am I trying to avoid or deny anything in my life?
11. Am I using this Rx to not face a fear of independence in my life?
12. Am I wishing or hoping this Rx was different?
13. How long will I keep waiting or investing on the potential that this Rx might change?
14. Have I been able to change? When? How much? In what areas have I been able to change?
15. Am I just waiting for something else or someone else “better” or “different”?